God Is: Everyone Has An Opinion

 

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God Is: Everyone has an Opinion

 

It seems often that in every direction we look today someone different is telling us what to believe about who God is or who God is not.  It can become confusing on who to believe and who to trust when it comes to theological and spiritual matters.  This week there has been huge debate, discussion, disagreement, and arguments towards a popular pastor and author in the Christian world who in his latest upcoming book begin to question the validity of a real Hell if God is a loving God.  A stunning statistic arose while presented the controversy on Good Morning America revealed that even though the word Hell is found a literal 54 times throughout the bible, only 59% of American Christians believe that there is a literal Hell.  It is obvious that there is confusion in the Christian world on Who God is and Who He is not.   

We know who God is not because of His word.  God is not a wimp.  We all know the wimp; he starts out correctly, speaks truth, and insists that his point of view is correct.  However at the first wind of controversy, the wimp changes his tune; the wimp is wishy-washy.  God is not a wimp (Jn. 3:36). 

God is not trendy.  How many of you have ever bought an item only to be told the next week that it was no longer "the trend"?  Trends change with the wind, trends don't make sense, and trends never last.  There are those that try to make God trendy so that He fits in where ever the current trend of society may be.  God is not trendy, He does not change (Ps. 102:25-27).  God is not American Love.  The definition of the word love in America is so distorted that it is often hard to even explain the Gospel using the word love, because American's do not understand the word.  God's definition of love includes adjectives such as discipline, sacrifice, and unending.  America's definition of love includes adjectives such as cheap, selfish, and short.  There is much controversy over whether a loving God can do this or whether a loving God can do that; the problem is not whether or not God is a loving God, the problem is America doesn't know what love is, they don't know who God is.  God is not American Love (Jn:16-17).  We know who God is not because of His word.  

We know who we are, because of His word.  God's Grace is overwhelming.  Our Pastor preached this past Sunday on the thief on the cross and pointed out the irony that there were two thieves on the cross; one believed, one did not; one is spending eternity with God forever, one is not.  As Blain brought this word, I was overwhelmed with how unbelievable God's grace really is.  I know through His Word that I am a thief!  I am a sinner! I should have no hope! But for some unimaginable reason, God being rich in love and mercy has provided me with eternal life!  We know who we are because of His Word (Eph 2:4-6).  

We know who God is, because of His Word.  God is Holy (Isa 6:1-6).  He is set apart, He is without sin, and it is this character that sets Him apart from His Creation.  It is God's Holiness that demands eternal separation of sinful mankind from Him.  There is a real hell, and we are all really headed there apart from the blood of Jesus Christ.  God is Independent (Acts 17:24-25).  God does not need anyone of us, but yet we all need Him; God is independent from all creation in that He is not dependent upon anyone else - He is sufficient.  To contrast, we are dependent upon God for EVERYTHING!  There is nothing that we are not dependent upon God for: life, breath, food, water, knowledge, wisdom; we having nothing without God.  God is eternal (Ps. 90:2; Job 36:26).  God is unchanging and timeless.  There was never a time that He was not, He just is; God never gets a makeover, God never upgrades, God never changes His mind or broadens His horizons.  God is all-knowing, unchanging, and is timeless.  God is eternal.  We know who God is, because of His Word.  

In this time that we live in, it is easy to become confused who God is not, who we are, and who God is.  I challenge you to know the word of God; it is only through this knowledge of God's word that we will have a correct understanding of who we are and who He is.  

To God Be All Glory,

Jonathan

True Joy

When I was growing up I loved to be in the water in the summer. Whether it was a creek, a pond, lake, or a pool, I wanted to be in the water. Even though I loved to be in the water, there was still a fear that came along with that love; the unknown of what might be living in the water or even the fear of drowning.

One summer my family took a trip to Manatee Springs in Florida. Manatee Springs is a gorgeous spring-fed outlet off of the Suwannee1 River, which is in places forty feet deep with crystal clear water where you can see all the way to the bottom. In the park there is a fifteen high dive platform built over a portion of water that is forty feet deep, so you can jump without fear of hitting the bottom. However, as a seven year old, fifteen feet feels like thirty feet; in my young mind, there was no way someone could survive a jump from that height. Having the gift of an older brother that was always willing to coax me into doing things that would bring me pain or embarrassment, I was not eager to trust him when he told me it was safe. After him pleading with me to jump, the parents got involved, and assured me that it was indeed safe. I still did not believe them, although they did not have a history of telling me to do things that would bring me pain. So trusting that my parents had never led me into harm, I literally took a leap of faith. The high jump became my favorite activity of the trip, even to the point of where my parents had to beg me to quit jumping so we could leave.

It is hard to trust God. It is especially hard to trust God when He calls us to take a leap of faith when we are thinking, there is no way I will survive this. This leap of faith may come in the shape of a career change, a location change, to quit dating a certain person, or to witness to a certain person. There are times I find myself saying boldly, “I trust God” or “God is Sovereign” while standing firm on solid ground; but then I will find myself on a high dive platform of life, looking down, and thinking, “I do trust God?” or “God, you are sovereign, right?” My assurance comes at that point by knowing God has never led me astray, He has always provided, and He has always done exceedingly more than I could imagine when I simply trust Him.

I’m not sure what God is doing in your life currently. Maybe you are retired and He is leading you to volunteer your time at a woman’s crisis center or homeless shelter, maybe God is leading you to a career change, or maybe God is calling you to find pleasure in Him in a life of singleness. I’m not sure what leap of faith God is calling you to today. I do know though, that if you trust in God, take a leap of faith, and follow Him, then He will give you overabundant joy that is unimaginable.

If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

(John 15:10-11 ESV)

I Don’t Want to Waste My Life, So Why Do I?

As we said goodbye to 2010 and have welcomed in 2011 I have begun to reflect upon the past year of my life. So much occurred this pat year my mind can barely wrap around it. I honestly can say that 2010 was one of the most difficult, emotional, and rewarding years of my life.

As last New Year’s rolled around, I was just beginning to get accustomed to the fact that I was married and had found a woman who continually amazed me in how perfect she was for me (and still does). However God had a big plan for us in 2010 and it included the birth of our first child, MacKenzie Grace. The year begin off with us praying that God would provide financially, in January Natalie got hired on at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary as a secretary which gave her consistent hours, better pay, and more enjoyable co-workers than the retail job she was working at the time. This was an amazing blessing for us as my school became free and Natalie got a huge pay raise, finally we were on our feet. However God had more in mind with this job than we could ever imagine, within a few weeks of working there Natalie and I found out MacKenzie was on the way, this job allowed her to also have the benefit of being pregnant and not having a job where she would have to be on her feet all the time, and the increased pay/free tuition made it possible for us to even think of having a baby. God is the great provider.

In February I had an opportunity to go and serve at a DNow at FBC Clarksville, it was a great learning experience and God was able to use the time away from the grind to prepare my heart for the month to come. In March I experienced hurt. I have been fortunate to that point to have never experienced the death of any one I was close to, however in March I lost my grandmother who was like a second mother to me growing up. So many emotions still stir inside of me as I think of the death of my grandmother; death is an odd thing – I know that my grandmother is with God at this moment and rejoicing with Him, however I still hurt to not be able to spend time with her telling her what is going on in my life and listing to the wisdom and advice she had to offer. You know it is odd how God works, He allowed my grandmother to die as at the same time was beginning a new life inside of Natalie, this imagery gave me a whole new perspective and truth of the cyclical nature of life to me. It brought to truth the scripture of Ecclesiastes 1:4-8

“A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever….What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun.”

At the point of my grandmothers death I discovered a new truth in myself to, I don’t want to waste my life.

As the year continued I had the opportunity to go many places and do many things. In the month of June I was able to attend a youth camp with my church where God moved greatly within our youth, not in an emotional high type way or in a way of vanity, but in a true biblical prayerful way. I was there and I had opportunity to serve more than I did, but I allowed myself to get in the way at many times, I think God had more for me that week to be able to learn, share, and teach, and I wasted my life.

In July I had a crazy schedule, I was gone three weeks out of the month. The second week of the month I had opportunity to go to Birmingham and be a part of my friend, Cary Hughes wedding. It was a great time away for Natalie and I to spend time away from the grind, focusing on our relationship before the next two weeks. As soon as we returned from Birmingham, we left again to go to Kenai, Alaska on a mission trip. Alaska is a beautiful place, however it is also a dark place. The people of Alaska are hurting, lost, and in desperate need of the light of the gospel. I have been quite a few places, but never have I seen the desperation for the gospel in such a place as I did in Alaska. Even with this realization and this understanding right in front of my face, I feel as if I did not share the gospel boldly enough, I didn’t take the most of opportunities I had, and I allowed immature luxury spoiled habits to waste my life while in Alaska.

The second half of the year was spent in preparation for the arrival of MacKenzie. We moved to a new apartment complex so that we would have two bedrooms for the baby to sleep in; I traded in my two-door civic for a larger vehicle so that we could fit the baby and her stuff in one vehicle; and I worked odd jobs to put back enough money to make it through the time that Natalie was on maternity leave from her job. It was a busy time.

MacKenzie Grace Coleman arrived on October 5th, 2010 around the 6:00 pm hour. I honestly can say that the time building up to that moment with complications that led to fetal distress and a C-Section, and the time after that moment, where Natalie had multiple blood clots were some of the most difficult moments of my life. I have never been more scared, more prayerful, more emotional, and more excited, than I was in the 48 hour window surrounding the birth of my daughter. It was also in this time that I truly begin to understand how much I love my wife; not in a hyper-emotional way, but in a way that I am jealous to protect her emotions, health, and well-being from any harm. This love is deep, it’s a deep love that is more self-less and passionate than anything I have ever felt and it was rattled by the complications that surrounded the birth of MacKenzie. This was also the first time I had been in a hospital since my Grandmother had passed away, I couldn’t help but become emotional again as I knew the love that I had for my wife of only a year and half and knowing that my grandfather still hurts after having lost his wife of more than fifty years.

As MacKenzie came into the world, I honestly say I was more relieved at the moment than anything, to know that she was here and alright, and that Natalie was done (or so we thought) and was alright. I loved her when she came out, I was jealous for her, to protect her and guard her, however I find myself falling more in love with her daily. The first time she smiled at me and acknowledge me a few weeks ago and now as she laughs at me and with me I love her more and more deeply everyday. This year I’ve learned to love my wife more deeply and I’ve learned the love of a father. It has deeply changed and impacted the view of how God views me and how helpless I really am. Just as MacKenzie depends upon us for everything, she is so helpless, so are we to God. Apart from God I don’t have breath, I don’t have life, I don’t have food, shelter, or even purpose. Apart from God I have nothing.

With the birth of my daughter I once again realized that I did not want to waste my life. I didn’t want to waste opportunities with time spent reading useless technology news, playing on facebook, or watching useless sitcom reruns. However eleven weeks later I can tell you that I have not held true to this commitment, I have once again wasted my life.

I don’t want to waste my life, so why do I?

I have come to the conclusion I waste my life because a lack of discipline in my life. I have never been one for new years resolutions, I have always in the back of my mind made fun of those who make them knowing that 95% of new years resolutions don’t last a week. However this year I am the one to be mocked as I have some commitments for the new year to myself and to God. My commitment is simply to be more intentional in my life, so that I do not waste it. I am committing to be more intentional in my life in five different areas:

1. My Relationship With God.

2. My Discipleship and Leading of My Family

3. My studying and passion in the field God had called me to

4. In My Relationships

5. In My Time.

My biggest fear is that I will look back in fifty years and see that I have wasted my life. It is my resolution and commitment this year that I will not waste my life that God so graciously gives me every day and every second.

Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun. Whatever your had finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought of knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going

Ecclesiastes 9:9-10

I Hate Sin, But I'm a Sinner

I am a sinner. I hate sin, but yet I am a sinner. Do you ever get frustrated that you live a life that in sinful? I do. I often find myself wondering, "why do I give into sin if I love God"? In Romans, Paul tells us that we were slaves to sin, but we are now set free and have become slaves of God. If I am a slave of God why then do I reflect a life of someone who is a slave to sin? Why can I not be released from the sins that haunt me and encapsulate my life? It's not that I don't have faith; I have faith that God has saved me from my sins. It's not that I don't pray; I pray daily that God will lead me away from temptation and give me the power to say no to sin. It's not that I don't spend time in God's word; I’ve seen how God rebukes those living a double lifestyle of lukewarmness. Why then do I submit to sin?

I submit to sin because I am fully human. Jesus, unlike I, was fully human AND fully God. He is the only one that has ever lived a sin-less life; to think that I could even come close to living such a life would be ludicrous. I hate sin, but I also love sin. I hate sin because it is against God whom I love and keeps my life from glorifying Him. However I love sin because it declares that I am hopeless without a Savior. Without Jesus, I have no hope because I am a sinner.¹

I hate sin, yet I am a sinner. I constantly do the things I don’t want to do; this clearly proves that there is NOTHING good in me, apart from Christ. I have the desire to not sin and do what is right, but I don’t have the ability to carry it out; I end up doing the evil I hate instead of the good I desire to do. What a great joy then I have in salvation through Jesus Christ, loving me enough in spite that I am only able to do what is right in my mind, and not in my flesh.

Do you ever get frustrated with giving into sin? If you don’t, this should raise some concerns. However if you do, I would encourage you to read Romans. Sin in the believer’s life is a constant reminder that we are in desperate need of a Savior. Praise be to God that even though we are a people full of sin, He has provided a path to freedom!

¹ Romans 7:15-25.